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the—personal—quotes: my—teen—quote: Are you a...

Thu, 23 May 2013 09:23:16 -0400

the—personal—quotes:

my—teen—quote:

Are you a teen? This blog is just for you!

sad.

Thu, 23 May 2013 09:20:02 -0400

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Wed, 15 May 2013 10:31:27 -0400

yanilavigne: (Quotes here)

Wed, 15 May 2013 07:15:40 -0400

yanilavigne:

(Quotes here)

sometimes when i drop something i’ll just stand there and groan until someone picks it up for me

Wed, 15 May 2013 07:15:05 -0400

sometimes when i drop something i’ll just stand there and groan until someone picks it up for me

May 13, 2013

Mon, 13 May 2013 06:58:06 -0400

Dear Future Husband,

Hey! where are you? Today I got hurt but I was told a very nice bible verse. jeremiah 29:11. You see, I realize that if a person wants me in his life.. he will make an effort to stay. I won’t need to keep on chasing him.. Because he wouldn’t have left if he really do love me. Hey, Thanks for choosing me.. I hope you won’t leave me. We vowed in front of God right? I’ts hard to find someone who would keep up with all the things I do. My mood change, my values, my principles, my ideals.. I hope you won’t change me because I won’t change you. I will accept you for who you are just accept me for what I am. What things I believe in.

We will have our differences because we are 2 different people. But you must know that I would always want to fix things if you want it too. When we fight.. and you know I can’t take it anymore.. please just hug me and stop. I promise I will stop too.

“KAYA YAN, PROMISE.”

May 8, 2012

Wed, 08 May 2013 08:55:42 -0400

Dear future husband,

Hey! I’m going to medschool. Where are you right now? I’m going to have a volunteer work next week. I hope I could talk to you. You see, there’s been a lot going on with my life and I really needed someone to be there for me. To support me. I wanted someone to ask me, “are you okay?”.. “how are you feeling?”

I am a really nice person. But, you know what? I really feel I am being taken for granted because of that. I hope you’re a nice person. I pray that you are someone that would never hurt me. I pray that you are God’s gift to me. I pray that you won’t give up on us no matter how horrible things get. I hope that when you finally found me, you would be sure and not let me go. I hope that you’d be willing to chase me even at the edges of the earth. I hope you love me that much.. BECAUSE I WILL. I WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU MORE THAN I TAKE CARE OF MY OWN HEART.

Love,

your partner through out - me

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Sun, 05 May 2013 09:48:53 -0400

"So, because some men have managed to sexualize stretchy yoga pants, that means stretchy yoga pants..."

Sun, 05 May 2013 09:48:48 -0400

“So, because some men have managed to sexualize stretchy yoga pants, that means stretchy yoga pants are now inappropriate/slutty/cause for “alarm.” Because the standards for what it’s okay for women to wear should be dictated by men’s libidos. Nearly every woman I have talked to about this — in the office, on Facebook, on Twitter — has echoed the sentiments of the women commenting on the GMP piece: we wear yoga pants because they are comfortable. Period. The suggestion that we A) wear them because we want sexual attention from men and B) that therefore they shouldn’t be worn in scenarios in which that attention would be “inappropriate” takes all the responsibility for controlling male lust off men and places it on women. And that is some bullshit.”

- The Soapbox: Women Wear Yoga Pants Because They Are Comfortable, Not Because They Apparently Give You A Boner (via veruca-assault)

the—personal—quotes: my—teen—quote: Are you a...

Sun, 05 May 2013 09:48:01 -0400

the—personal—quotes:

my—teen—quote:

Are you a teen? This blog is just for you!

psych-facts: Hugs that last over twenty seconds, release a...

Sun, 05 May 2013 09:47:51 -0400

psych-facts:

Hugs that last over twenty seconds, release a chemical in your body called “Oxytocin”, which makes you trust the person you’re hugging more.

“We need 4 hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth” - Virginia Satir, family therapist

Hugging someone is a way of showing that we care, and for both the hugged and hugger, it feels good. When growing up, we are very sensitive to touch. We recognize our parents initially through sense of touch.

Oxytocin is a neurotransmitter that acts like a hormone and helps promote trust. It’s released in the body when we feel safe. This could be through breast-feeding (when we’re little), holding hands, snuggling, dancing with someone, during a massage or body work out or things that generally make us feel at ease. Hugging is definitely one of the things that make us release oxytocin.

spiritualinspiration: As a believer in Jesus, you have certain...

Sun, 05 May 2013 09:47:27 -0400

spiritualinspiration:

As a believer in Jesus, you have certain privileges because you belong to Christ. When you chose Him, God put a blood line around you that the enemy cannot cross. As long as you’re keeping Him first place, you have a hedge of protection, a hedge of favor, a hedge of mercy surrounding you like a shield. When difficulties come, God says that because you’re His child, because you honor Him, even though that problem has formed, in the end it is not going to prosper. When it’s all said and done, it’s not going to harm you. God is going to turn it around and use it to your advantage. That’s your heritage as a believer!